Rachel Zoe, the star of *Real Housewives of Beverly Hills*, has disclosed that she initiated the divorce from her husband, Rodger Berman, after a marriage lasting 26 years and a relationship spanning 33 years. In an interview with *People*, the 54-year-old stylist emphasized, “When I made the decision to leave my marriage, it was like, okay, next.” This statement clarifies previous comments where she suggested the split was a mutual decision.
The couple, who married in 1996, announced their separation publicly in September 2024, after Zoe filed for divorce in July of the same year. The stylist and fashion entrepreneur did not elaborate on the specific reasons behind her decision to end the marriage, but she has highlighted the importance of independence in her life.
Zoe remarked, “I’m really trying to help as many women as possible. I mean, probably at least 30% of the women in my life are going through a separation or a divorce.” She expressed her perspective on navigating life after a long-term relationship, stating that her independence—financially, professionally, and socially—has helped her cope with the change.
Reflections on Independence and Moving Forward
The reality television star drew parallels between her experience and insights shared by actress Reese Witherspoon, noting the critical importance of women having their own pursuits. Zoe stated, “You have to have your own things to wake up for every day.” This sense of self-sufficiency, she argues, is vital when transitioning from a long-term relationship.
Zoe has also indicated that she plans to share her journey on the upcoming season of *Real Housewives of Beverly Hills*, which is set to air on December 4, 2025. She commented on her emotional state, acknowledging that she feels “different on every level” and aims to portray the reality of her life to viewers.
The couple shares two sons, Skyler, 14, and Kaius, 11. In her split announcement, Zoe emphasized their commitment to co-parenting and maintaining a strong family unit. She wrote, “We are incredibly proud of the loving family we have created and our countless memories together.”
A Lasting Legacy and Future Endeavors
Rachel Zoe first met Rodger Berman at George Washington University in 1991, where they began their relationship while pursuing their studies. After graduation, they relocated to New York City, with Zoe establishing a successful career in fashion and Berman working in finance.
Zoe rose to fame in the mid-2000s, particularly after styling Nicole Richie, which helped solidify her place in the fashion industry. She has worked with numerous celebrities, including Jennifer Garner, Lindsay Lohan, and Kate Hudson. Reflecting on her career, she mentioned how support from her clients has been crucial during challenging times.
As she navigates this new chapter in her life, Zoe remains focused on her professional endeavors and the well-being of her children. She continues to advocate for women’s independence and resilience, emphasizing the need for individuals to stand strong in the face of adversity.
