The adult entertainer and Twitch gamer known as SheyTheGay has died unexpectedly at the age of 26 on December 25, 2023. Her family announced the tragic news through her Instagram account, leading to an outpouring of tributes from fans and fellow creators. The heartfelt statement described her as “hilarious and talented,” emphasizing the love she shared with her community and the impact of her sudden loss.
In their announcement, the family expressed their need for support during this difficult time, stating, “Life will truly not be the same without you.” SheyTheGay, who was nominated for Favourite Cosplayer at the upcoming 2026 AVN Awards, was set to be recognized at the AVN Expo in Las Vegas later this month.
Many in the adult entertainment community have shared their condolences. Notably, fellow adult star Gigi Sweets remarked, “Shey leaves behind a legacy of creativity and community.” She continued, “A star in our sky gone too soon, to be missed by everyone she loved.”
Originally from Little Falls, New York, SheyTheGay studied communications and photography at Monroe Community College. Her vibrant online presence attracted over 30,000 followers on platforms like Instagram and TikTok. In her recent YouTube content, she documented her adventures, including a visit to New York City’s Javits Centre and the Museum of Sex. She often described herself as “just a nerd with a dream of makin’ lots of content for people to smile at.”
Tributes continued to pour in from fans and friends alike. One Instagram user expressed gratitude for having known her, saying, “I’m so grateful I got to know such a wonderful, beautiful and charismatic person.” Another fan remarked, “The best people are always taken from us too early.”
A fellow cosplayer shared her sorrow, stating, “Words cannot describe how thankful I am that I got an opportunity to meet Shey and get to know her as I did.” She urged the community to honor SheyTheGay in a way that reflects her vibrant spirit and contributions.
In response to the unexpected passing, a GoFundMe page has been established to assist with funeral expenses. The tragic loss of SheyTheGay serves as a reminder of her significant impact on those around her and the joy she brought to many. The community mourns the loss of a talented individual whose legacy will continue to inspire those who knew her.
